15 Years of Cosplay, Questionable Wig Decisions, and Learning the Hard Way

Lost in the shuffle of planning Dragon Con and my upcoming Japan trip is a milestone that completely snuck up on me.

A special anniversary. No, not a relationship anniversary…well, not in the traditional sense anyway.

This year marks 15 years since I started cosplaying regularly, which is honestly wild to think about. Somehow a decade and a half has gone by since I decided to jump headfirst into one of the most fun, chaotic, and occasionally wallet-destroying hobbies out there.

Now, if we’re being technically accurate, my first cosplay moment actually happened back in 2008. My anime club put together a Super Smash Bros. skit for the Anime Expo 2008 Masquerade, and I played Ike. Not only was it my first time in cosplay, but our group ended up winning Best in Show, which is still one of those “did that really just happen?” moments looking back on it, especially since said performance was done in front of what I heard was about 5000 people in the Peacock Theater (then called the Nokia Theater). If you’re curious what that looked like, here’s the actual Masquerade performance:

Anime Expo 2008 Masquerade – our Super Smash Bros. skit that won Best in Show.

But even after that, cosplay wasn’t something I immediately kept doing. The main reason was simple: cosplay isn’t cheap. Between costumes, wigs, props, and everything else associated with the hobby, it adds up fast. Even though hobbies are fun and provide memories and new friendships, it was something I just couldn’t justify doing it regularly at the time.

It wasn’t until 2011 that I finally started cosplaying consistently. And when I did, I decided to try something a little outside my comfort zone. I decided to try crossplay.

For anyone unfamiliar with the term, crossplay is when you cosplay as a character of a different gender than your own. It’s a style of cosplay you’ll see a lot at anime conventions, but it definitely comes with its own unique learning curve.

One of my earlier crossplay attempts: Yui from K-ON .

For starters, there was the whole “I am a very hairy person attempting to cosplay anime girls” situation.

That led to my introduction to the magical—and slightly terrifying—world of Veet and Nair. If you’ve never used hair removal cream before, the experience can basically be summarized as: apply mysterious chemical paste and hope you didn’t leave it on too long.

Let’s just say there was some trial and error involved before I figured out what actually worked.

Then there was cosplay sizing, which is often a gamble—especially when ordering from overseas shops which I imagine is where a lot of people buy their cosplay if they aren’t making it or having it commissioned. I definitely had a few early costumes where my first thought was something along the lines of, “There is absolutely no way this is fitting.” and “How did they get my measurement so wrong?”

After a couple of those experiences, I adopted a very important rule:

Only buy from places where I can submit measurements. Even then, I’ve adopted the practice of adding a little padding to my measurements. I would much rather deal with something slightly loose which can easily be altered than discover I’ve ordered a costume that fits like it was made for someone half my size and I’ve just wasted money

Some people solve this problem by learning how to sew.

I admire those people greatly.

I am not one of those people.

Sewing requires a level of patience that I’ve come to accept I simply do not have. I know myself and my temper well enough to realize that if I tried to build everything from scratch, most projects would probably end up abandoned halfway through. So instead I’ve fully embraced my role as a cosplay buyer and assembler and focus my energy on the parts of cosplay I actually enjoy.

Then there are wigs.

Long wigs and I have what can only be described as an adversarial relationship. They look great in theory, but they require a level of styling discipline that I sometimes struggle with.

One of my biggest early mistakes was not knowing when to stop messing with a wig. You start adjusting one strand, then another, and before you know it you’ve somehow made it worse than when you started and now you have a bird’s nest.

Because of that, I’ve quietly eliminated a few potential cosplay ideas over the years—even ones where I liked the character—simply because the wig situation would have been a nightmare…my failed attempt to cosplay as Hatsune Miku immediately comes to mind.

All of those experiences eventually shaped the kind of cosplays I prefer today.

These days I gravitate toward simple, comfortable costumes that I can wear for long convention days without constantly adjusting things. And no long wigs or characters with crazy hairstyles that take a master’s degree to style.

That’s one reason you’ll notice a lot of school uniforms in my cosplay lineup. They’re comfortable, practical, and surprisingly versatile. Swap a wig, change a ribbon or jacket, and suddenly you’re a completely different character.

These days I favor comfortable cosplay that can survive an entire convention day such as this Kyoko Mogami costume.

From a purely practical standpoint, the flexibility of school uniforms or say, a generic maid dress gives those costumes a pretty high return on investment, which is always appreciated when you’re dealing with a hobby that can get expensive fast.

Of course, one thing I had to get used to pretty quickly with crossplay was the attention it brings.

Since I don’t naturally have a particularly androgynous appearance even with makeup, which is still very much a work in progress even after all this time, I knew going in that I was probably going to get some looks or the occasional comment. Over time I got used to it, and at this point I can mostly shrug it off to the point where I don’t even know anything was said unless a friend mentions it.

What’s funny to me is that those moments are actually such a tiny fraction of the experience because the overwhelming majority of cosplay interactions are the exact opposite.

People who love the same characters and series you do.

The random hallway compliments, the excited “Hey, I love that character!” moments, the photos, and the conversations with fellow fans—that’s the part that sticks with you.

Fifteen years later I’m still learning, still improving, and still finding new characters I want to bring to life at conventions.

With a pretty stacked convention calendar this year—Fanime, AX, Dragon Con, Anime Los Angeles, and possibly Katsucon—it looks like year fifteen of this hobby is going to be a very busy one. Which means plenty of opportunities to keep refining things, trying new characters, and probably discovering a few more lessons the hard way.

Looking at my current cosplay lineup — both the costumes I already own and the ones still on the way — I’d say that crossplay experiment in 2011 turned out pretty well.

And honestly?

Stepping outside my comfort zone like that might be one of the best decisions I’ve ever made as a fan, even if my wallet says otherwise.

So I’m Planning a Solo Trip to Japan (Send Help… or Pocky)

Japan.

The land of the rising sun, ancient temples, neon-lit cities, and the birthplace of anime. For a lot of us otaku, it’s less of a vacation and more of a pilgrimage — the kind you spend years saying you’ll take someday.

And after more than 20 years of saying “someday,” it finally looks like that someday might actually be happening this year, which means, naturally, I’ve decided to plan the entire trip myself.

Because apparently I enjoy stress.

OK, maybe that’s a little dramatic. Planning a trip to Japan isn’t actually that different from planning a vacation anywhere else…aside from the 11-12 hour flight and jetlagged parts, but minor details, right? Fortunately, I’ve got friends who’ve been to Japan — some multiple times — and between their advice and the massive amount of travel information online, the planning process hasn’t been nearly as intimidating as it first seemed.

That said, planning a solo trip halfway across the planet does come with its own considerations. I briefly looked into tour options before realizing I’d much rather build the trip around the things that I personally want to see. Honestly, I could probably do a whole post on the solo-versus-tour debate when it comes to to trip planning.

Once I started mapping things out, the itinerary began to take shape pretty quickly. Some plans lean into the cultural side of Japan — temples, wandering neighborhoods, and just soaking in the atmosphere.

Other parts lean very heavily into the otaku pilgrimage side of things.

Anime locations.

Fandom landmarks.

Places that have been living rent-free in my brain for years.

And there may or may not be a certain once-in-a-lifetime event later in the trip that could potentially reshape my plans depending on how the ticket lottery gods feel that week, but no pressure.

Let’s just say if things go my way, there may be a lot of glow sticks involved.

One of the biggest early decisions was figuring out where to base the trip. At first I considered the classic first-timer route that hops between several regions of Japan. But the more I looked into everything there is to do in Tokyo — the neighborhoods, the arcades, the anime districts, the endless rabbit holes for fans like me — the more I realized something pretty quickly: Tokyo could easily fill an entire trip by itself.

So instead of rushing around the country, I decided this first visit will be Tokyo-heavy, with a few carefully chosen side adventures mixed in. That approach gives me the freedom to slow down, explore neighborhoods, and stumble across things that aren’t on any itinerary . Originally, I told myself the trip would be about two weeks, but then reality set in. Between the long flight, the time difference, and the fact that I’ll be walking miles every single day, two weeks started to feel way too short.

So the trip quietly grew.

And then it grew again.

And again.

What started as “about two weeks” is now sitting at roughly three and a half weeks, which should give me time to explore, pace myself, and maybe sneak in a few side trips along the way while giving my legs a chance to recover after heavier days. Even now, it still feels like I could spend longer, but at some point you have to draw the line, otherwise I’d probably just move there for a month and call it “research.”

This trip is still very much a work in progress, and there’s a lot more to figure out — flights, neighborhoods I’m considering as a home base, anime pilgrimage spots, and a few experiences I’m especially excited about.

So consider this the beginning of a series, because if the planning phase is already this much of an adventure, I have a feeling the actual trip is going to be something else entirely. Something tells me I’m going to have plenty of stories to tell along the way and I’m excited to document the madness!

Dragon Con: Chaos, Costumes, and Questionable Decisions

In my last post, I casually mentioned that I’m finally going to check off a bucket list item with my first trip to Japan. You know, the one that could potentially end with me attending a once in a lifetime concert if the lottery gods work in my favor? Yeah, that one.

Well, what if I told you that about a month and a half before I even board that flight to Tokyo, I’m crossing another item off my list?

Not a “that would be nice someday” item. A core memory loading item.

A con I’ve watched during late night YouTube spirals and that friends speak about with equal parts reverence and “you just have to experience it.” The mythical, sleep is optional, Marriott carpet pattern burned into your retinas fever dream that is Dragon Con. The “why is it 4 a.m. and why am I still in cosplay” con.

The parade, the panels, unhinged and legendary hotel lobby lore. The kind of event you don’t attend so much as you exist within — emerging five days later with stories, new friends, sore feet, and questioning life choices while sitting drunk in a Waffle House at 2 a.m. in full cosplay.

Am I slightly unhinged for stacking this right before Japan? Maybe. But I’ve accepted that “normal” was never really my lane. Normal is predictable. It doesn’t involve red-eyes, layered cosplay in Southern humidity, or meticulously timed airport logistics that would make a project manager proud.

2026 just feels like the year I stop saying “eventually” and start saying “why not now?” The timing works. The pieces are lining up. My bucket list is basically staring at me like, “We doing this or what?”

So yes, we’re doing this.

A five-day fandom marathon with 80,000 fellow geeks.

Followed by a culture-rich, anime pilgrimage, possible-concert-induced emotional breakdown (in the best way) trip.

All within two months.

Expect recaps and chaos. Yes, I will be participating in the parade, because obviously, why wouldn’t I sign up to wake up early to spend extra time in the Atlanta heat for cosplay (all while trying not to melt into the street)?

The real question is whether I will remember that I’m in my 40s and not my 20s. Will I pace myself properly? That remains to be seen, but one thing is certain — it’s going to make excellent content, and very likely require electrolytes and Tylenol.

Plot Twist: My Japan Trip Might End at Love Live’s 15th Anniversary

I’ve only casually mentioned it before, but it’s actually happening — the pieces are falling into place for the Japan trip I’ve been talking about for what feels like a lifetime. Dates aren’t locked down in permanent ink yet, but the blueprint is there: three weeks, late October into mid-November, Tokyo as the main focus with equal parts cultural deep dive and full-on anime pilgrimage mode (yes, Love Live is absolutely on the list). And then, because the universe apparently thrives on chaos, and impeccable timing, the 15th Anniversary live in Nagoya gets announced…and just like that, my carefully structured plan immediately pivoted.

To be fair, the dates shifting doesn’t actually derail anything I’ve been building — it just means extending the trip a few extra nights and carving out time for Nagoya. The Tokyo-heavy plan would remain intact. The cultural stuff? Still happening. The pilgrimages? Obviously still happening. This is just… adding one more layer.

And let’s be real: I would not be a very good Love Live fan if I didn’t at least try to get into a 15th Anniversary live while I’m already planning to be in Japan at the same time. Yes, technically last year marked the actual 15th anniversary, but logistics and scheduling are their own beasts. The point is, it’s happening — and I’m going to shoot my shot. But I’m also realistic, these lotteries are or can be brutal. The competition is intense, and overseas fans are basically throwing their names into the same storm as everyone else. I know it won’t be easy, but I’m going to try anyway. Aggressively, and if by some miracle I get that ticket? You genuinely could not script a better finale to a first Japan trip as a fan of the franchise than ending it surrounded by every generation of Love Live sharing one stage. That would be the kind of full-circle, emotional damage (the good kind) ending you remember forever.

If I manage to get a ticket for either night — or somehow the universe decides to go full main-character arc and lets me into both — I’ll absolutely write about it here. Just… give me time to emotionally recover first. I already know that’s not going to be a “post the next morning” situation, it’s going to be a sit-stare-at-the-wall-and-process-what-just-happened kind of experience.

And honestly? It would make the perfect final chapter in what will be a full series documenting this whole trip, concert or not. I’m talking everything — the whole journey from spreadsheet mode to touchdown back home; I’m taking you along for the ride as I finally take that dream trip that’s been years in the making. So, content, of course. Memories, absolutely.

If Nagoya happens, that’s not just a side quest, that’s the emotional finale.

Royal Rumble 2026 recap

So here’s the deal: I haven’t actually sat down and watched WWE regularly since last year’s WrestleMania. I’ve loosely kept up with stories and results, but as far as committing to weekly shows or Premium Live Events? The motivation just hasn’t really been there. I have a list of issues with WWE that is probably its own post, honestly.

That said… the Royal Rumble is still one of my favorite wrestling events every year, and when I saw it was playing in theaters, my self-control immediately folded. Because let’s be real — you can’t say no to the potential of surprise returns and “oh my god that music hit” debuts, especially with a crowd of like minded people.

Women’s Royal Rumble (winner: Liv Morgan)

After coming close a few times, Liv Morgan finally went the distance and won the Royal Rumble, last eliminating a returning Tiffany Stratton and even tossing her own Judgment Day partner Raquel Rodriguez out along the way. Not to be lost in the shuffle, but Sol Ruca quietly had a breakout performance of her own, which hopefully leads to a push. The only true shocking moment was Brie Bella popping back up, but honestly, the women’s roster is so stacked right now that stuffing in a bunch of surprise returns probably would’ve just cluttered things.

Overall? A really fun opener. Creative gear work around the Saudi restrictions too — even if I still hate that WWE keeps taking the blood money to run shows there.

Gunther defeated AJ Styles

With his career on the line, AJ Styles vs Gunther had built-in tension and absolutely delivered.

Gunther really has that final boss aura now — already retiring Goldberg and John Cena, and now choking Styles out with a sleeper like some unstoppable endgame villain. Credit where it’s due: WWE has nailed him as the monster heel you desperately want to see lose.

Also kinda poetic (and cruel) that Styles debuted at the Royal Rumble in 2016 and his career ends at the same show ten years later…or does it? I refuse to believe AJ doesn’t pop back up for a few matches in Total Nonstop Action Wrestling where he originally made his name. That just feels too fitting.

WWE Championship: Drew McIntyre defeated Sami Zayn to retain

No offense to Sami Zayn or Drew McIntyre, but I’m gonna be honest — this was my designated bathroom break before the men’s Royal Rumble match.

As much as I love Sami, there was just zero universe where he was winning this match, there was also zero chance WWE was cutting Drew’s title reign short again, even if the crowd would’ve exploded for it. They had a couple of near-falls, but it always felt like the same story: Sami fighting uphill, Drew just being too big and too much.Realistically, Drew’s holding that belt until WrestleMania at minimum — and honestly, hopefully past it after he beats Cody Rhodes again.

For the love of God, please don’t hot-potato the title back to Cody already. Let Drew cook and have the lengthy title run in front of live audiences that eluded him during the pandemic and in storyline!

Men’s Royal Rumble (winner: Roman Reigns)

Is it safe booking to give the win to the guy who’s already main-evented more WrestleManias than basically anyone? Sure.

But love him or hate him, Roman Reigns is still a draw, and a Reigns vs CM Punk match sounds pretty great on paper if that’s where this is headed. Like the women’s match, this Rumble wasn’t huge on shock value. The main “wait a second” moment was Bron Breakker getting jumped on his way to the ring by a hooded mystery person (hi, probably Seth Rollins), which basically set him up to get dumped fast by Oba Femi, who looked like a monster all night. We also got the debut of Royce Keys (formerly Powerhouse Hobbs), which was a nice surprise. Overall? Fun, easy to watch, maybe a little predictable — but sometimes predictable chaos is still good chaos.

Final Thoughts

Was it a fun show and an easy way to kill a few hours? Sure.

Was it some all-time, “I’ll still be talking about this in five years” kind of Royal Rumble? No it wasn’t, but it didn’t need to be.

It did exactly what a Rumble is supposed to do: kick off the road to WrestleMania, set up a few new stories, and give us some direction heading into the “show of shows.” Nothing revolutionary, nothing disastrous — just an entertaining night of wrestling that understood the assignment.